An Open Letter To A Woman Who Wants To ATTRACT And KEEP HER MAN

Dear Friend,

I’d like to ask you a few questions. Be open and honest with yourself as you answer them…

Have you ever met a guy who seemed to be “Mr. Right”, but after getting to know him better you could tell that he just didn’t feel that same level of “connection” you felt?

You were attracted to him, but he just wasn’t into you the same way you were into him?

In your mind, you could sense what a great guy he was, and that, somewhere deep inside, you both shared this strong “chemistry” that made you feel close and comfortable. But for some reason he didn’t want to truly connect with you. advice on relationships

Another one…

Have you ever slept with a guy very quickly after meeting him, but as it started to happen you got that sinking feeling in your stomach? You knew it was a mistake, but you did it anyway. And then the thing you KNEW would happen actually happened: He unexplainably disappeared from your life. Honestly, have you ever had this happen?

Of course, the worst part wasn’t that it happened, but that you KNEW you shouldn’t have done it in the first place… but you did it anyway.

And finally:

Have you ever dated a great guy for a long time… I’m talking about six months, twelve months, or even longer… and it was getting to the point where you needed to have “the talk” with him. But when you tried to bring up the topic of having a relationship and making a bigger commitment, his eyes just glazed over… and then he became distant from you… and the relationship ended soon after?

You were trying to get CLOSER to him, and somehow he kept moving farther AWAY from you.

I’m guessing that when one of these things happened, your girlfriends said things like:

“He’s just a jerk, forget about him”.

Or they said: “He doesn’t see the mistake he’s making or what he’ll be missing”. But he never seemed to see these mistakes… or even miss you.

And the worst part of all: You kept thinking about it.

In fact, it really GOT TO YOU. And I’ll bet the REASON why it got to you is because you worried that it might have been something to do with YOU (and not just because he was a total jerk).

In fact, TO THIS DAY you still have the feeling that YOU may have done something wrong, and that you may have CAUSED some of the problems in the first place… and if you would have known the RIGHT thing to do, things would have turned out differently…

Unfortunately, the bad news is that you’re probably right.

Chances are you DID have something to do with it, and things probably WOULD have turned out differently if you would have known how to deal with the situation.

You COULD have done something about it… if only you had known WHAT to do…

The main PROBLEM here, and the thing that stood in your way, is that men aren’t easy to understand. And when you find a good man, he doesn’t come with an “instruction manual”.

Just because your girlfriends told you it wasn’t your fault, or that he was just “a jerk”, doesn’t mean that they understood the problem (or that they understand men at all, for that matter).

Most women don’t “get” men. Your friends who try to comfort and encourage you have good intentions. They’re just trying to make you feel better.

But they’re also accidentally making the situation WORSE.

They’re trying to blame the situation on HIM, instead of trying to help YOU understand how to KEEP a great guy around.

This situation is MOST dangerous when you meet a really GREAT GUY, but you don’t know how to catch him or keep him. Let’s face it, great guys are hard to find… and when you do find one, you can’t afford to lose him because you made a dumb mistake.

You can’t afford to throw away a good six months, a year… or even LONGER… and risk losing what could be a valuable relationship… just because you didn’t know how to handle a particular situation.

Well, there is some good news here… I personally believe that there IS something you can do about it.

You CAN learn how to understand men and get them to be open up and understand you. You can learn how to CATCH that great guy, and how to KEEP him.

After years and years of experiencing these types of situations and hearing about them from my female friends, I decided to DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT…

Here’s what I discovered:

The 3 Deadly Mistakes Women Make With Men
Without EVER Realizing It…

Through my research and personal experience, I’ve found that these 3 mistakes are responsible for more failed dates and relationships with men than any other factors. Here they are:

Mistake N1: Leading A Man To Think You Are “Needy” And “Insecure”

Did you know that there are 6 ways you can set off a man’s “Insecurity Alert” and make him think twice about pursuing a relationship with you?

Sadly, even confident women often “accidentally” give off one of these signs… and just one can kill the chance of a man asking you on a second date.

As you read through these signals men pick up on as “needy” and unattractive, ask yourself if YOU have ever been guilty of committing one of these deadly mistakes:

Talking or saying nasty things about your past boyfriends. Saying bad things about men you have been involved with actually reflects the negatively back on YOU. It makes a man worry you are carrying around “baggage” that HE will have to deal with should he become involved with you.

Speaking negatively about other women. When women call other women names like “slut”, “bitch”, and “crazy”, it is anything but impressive to a man you are attracted you. Women will often do this when they see a good looking, desirable woman, especially if they feel their man might be attracted to her. This just makes a man think you are trying to cover up your own insecurities, and looking for validation and attention. Not good.

Too much physical contact, especially in public.If you are constantly hanging on a man or touching him too much he’ll start to see it as clingy behavior… but you’ll never hear about this from him. It’s far better to save your touches for short and infrequent moments that will surprise and enchant him.

The next 2 are far deadlier, but less obvious… and it’s important that you learn what they are and how to avoid giving them off.

But before I show you how to do that, let’s talk about mistake #2:

Mistake N2: Appealing To His “Sexual” Side Instead Of His Emotional Side

Many women make the mistake of thinking that men are primarily driven by sex alone… and think if they can attract a man SEXUALLY they will be able to attract him EMOTIONALLY as well.

Women too often give up sex to a man in the hopes that it will translate into a relationship and get them what they want. In reality, a man has the capacity to view a sexual connection and an emotional connection as two entirely different things, and it requires a special set of skills to mold these two things together in a man’s mind… and keep them connected.

Men are out for far more than just sex… and a woman who knows how to fulfill a man EMOTIONALLY and SEXUALLY will be the woman who captures a man’s heart… and gets that same fulfillment for HERSELF. In a moment, I’ll show you how you can learn to do just that…

Mistake N3: Not Knowing How To Size Up A Man’s “Relationship Potential”

A lot of women will decide whether or not they should put energy into building a relationship with a man based on ATTRACTION.

Yes, attraction is important. But it can also be DANGEROUS.

When we feel a strong sense of attraction for someone, it can cause us to override our logic and ignore our instincts… leading us to overlook potential partner’s deadly faults that could spell trouble down the road.

If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in a relationship that is dragging you down, this is probably why.

It’s important to be able to size a guy up and spot any “warning signs” of a future bad relationship FAST… so you don’t waste any of your time or emotional energy on someone who isn’t right for you… or who will leave you heartbroken. Fortunately this is a fairly easy thing to do, and I’d like to show you how…

Here’s How To Find, Attract, And KEEP The Man
You’ve Always Wanted…

Wouldn’t it be nice to skip the dozens of dates with lame and shallow men most women have to go through… and fall right into the arms of the man you really want?

Would you like to learn how to captivate a man with your sharp wits and your kind heart… and never have to worry about just being wanted for sex again?

Would you like to have an almost “unfair” advantage over all other women when it comes to meeting and attracting the man you want… including those women who might be prettier and younger than you?

Are you tired of dealing with men who never really commit?

Do you want to break out of the destructive cycle of meeting men, dating them, getting into relationships, quitting things that you like to do… only to end up breaking up with the guy and feeling like you wasted your love and your life away on him?

Do you ever feel like you just can’t find the right man for you… and if you did… that he might not be attracted to YOU? Would you like to know how to change this?

Or is there a man in your life right now with whom you would like to take things from “casual” to “committed”, but you’re not sure exactly how to do it in a way that you know will work… or even if he is interested in in YOU the same way?

Or are you in a relationship right now that seems to be growing “stale”… because your man doesn’t do nice things for you, call you, or make plans the way he used to… and you’d like a fast and easy way to get things back to the way they used to be?

If you answered, “YES” to any of these questions, I have some exciting news for you…

I’ve put together what I like to think of as a “man manual” that literally ANY woman can use to help her both CATCH and KEEP that great guy when he comes along.

Your “Secret Weapon” For Success With Men

My book is called “THE Secter to Attract and Keep Ypor MAN”.

I believe that if you learn how to understand “male psychology” and you learn how to handle a few key specific situations, that you can CATCH the man of your dreams, and then KEEP him for the long-term.

The Secrets Men WISH You Knew
… But Don’t Know How To Tell You… women finding Mr. Right

Have you ever read a romance novel about a strong-willed woman who met a tough, “dangerous” alpha-male man… and over the course of the story, she “tamed” him and won him over… and made him fall completely and helplessly in love with her… to the point where he wanted to be with her FOREVER?

We’ve all heard this one before… but does it ever happen in real life?

The answer is YES.

Great guys get snagged all the time. Secretly ALL MEN want to find a woman that gives them that “forever” feeling… and when they do, they want to keep her all for themselves.

So how does this happen? How does a woman give a man that feeling that lets him know that she’s “the one”?

Well… as you can imagine… most guys don’t really think about this stuff.

And even if they did… just as you don’t want to have to tell a man how to turn you on, a man doesn’t want to tell you how to make him fall in love with you.

Like you, he just wants it to HAPPEN.

So even though your man will never tell you or even hint at how you can completely capture his heart, you can bet he is secretly hoping you will do all the right things.

And that’s where I come in.

When I set out to write this book, I made it my mission to find what REALLY works when it comes to attracting and keeping great men… and discover exactly how a woman could make love happen in a completely natural way.

I interviewed hundreds of men and women… and I discovered some VERY interesting things…

I started off by talking with women I knew who had “landed” great guys… desirable, successful men that any woman would consider a “catch”.

It goes without saying that many other women had tried (unsuccessfully) to tie these guys down.

Not surprisingly, I started to notice some common things…

I noticed that there was one distinct thing these women did at the very beginning to make a man see them as his “future” rather then just a “casual partner”.

Each one of them also had a unique, yet simple and accurate way of instantly “sizing a guy up”… so they NEVER wasted time on a guy who wasn’t up to their standards (Several of these methods actually got the guy to spill his own “dirty secrets” without knowing it!).

They also had a way of handling conflicts, important situations, and “the talk” that was VERY DIFFERENT from what most men are used to seeing (This method instantly puts a man at ease by creating a “you and I against the world” bond that he treasures deeply).

Why Guys Fall For Some Women
And Not Others…

This book wouldn’t be complete without the inside “dirt” from us MEN.

I made it my mission to track down dozens and dozens of the “cream of the crop”… and I got them to reveal “hows” and “whys” they themselves had never considered…

Not surprisingly, every guy I talked to had ways of “screening” women FAST… over the years they had learned to recognize certain signs that told them if a woman was insecure, a “drama queen”, had “baggage”, was needy or attention-starved, and even ways to instantly tell whether or not a woman knew what she was doing “between the sheets” before they ever got near the bedroom.

They also explained what women had done to secure spots in their hearts as the “one and only” (These were guys with plenty of options… but these women did 3 special things that made them completely forget about any and all other women).

And most importantly… I got them to reveal the things these special women had done to make those feelings last and last and last… perhaps the biggest challenge us men face in finding a woman to gave our hearts to.

I’ve been very fortunate in life in that I’ve never had a hard time meeting women or getting dates… but finding a woman who can keep my interest and attention has always been a different story…

Come to think of it, I can count the few who “tamed me” on one hand… with a finger or two to spare. (Every guy I interviewed actually said the same.)

I lay it all out for you here… and I hold nothing back.

The bottom line is this:

- Some women know secrets that other women do not.

- Some seem to know them “instinctively”, while others figure them out over time.

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